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]]>Even though we are prone to worry almost constantly, it should not be like that all the time. There are several ways that we can change this constant state of worry and make life more inspiring and more meaningful.
Changing this state of mind can be very helpful to your own health. It will de-clutter your mind and will make room for other exciting things to take shape in your life. Finally, you will be able to wake up and feel ready to take on the day.
So how can you stop worrying?
1. Embrace the fact that you are not in-charge
Are you someone who takes pleasure in being in control of everything? Maybe that is why you feel constantly worried.
I am not saying that you should not have plans about things but instead look at life as something bigger than you. There are so many variables that you cannot control. You cannot control the following: the weather, the past, global events (e.g. world economy), other people’s behaviours, traffic delays, other people’s opinions, aging, accidents and sickness, and the future. Sorry if you thought you could control any of these because you can’t.
Do you know what you can do instead in all of these things? Managing yourself is your main priority.
Accepting this is the beginning of stopping the constant worry of everyday.
2. Be average at being in the moment (if you can master the art)
Being in the moment can be very helpful to forget about the past and the future. Have you ever worried about the past so much so that you wish you went back and changed it? Well that will not be happening. Worrying about the past is the surest way of wasting your present time.
How about the future? Well the future is tricky because we need to be there right? The future may or may not come.
For example, worrying about what will happen after I write this article is not helpful for me at all. I do not know how you will react after reading this. Imagine if I was so worried about every person who will read this article and their thoughts let alone their reactions and comments. It would be close to impossible to write about anything since I do not know about the future.
So stay in the moment and do the work or play. This will make you stay focused and remove the constant worry that plagues most of us.
3. Have friends that you can talk to
Sharing your experiences with others can be very helpful to avoid feeling like you are the only one who is going through hard things in life.
I will tell you that no one on this planet has a monopoly on problems. The odds are that if you share what you are going through someone will relate to what you are trying to say or at least listen to you. Keeping things to yourself can seem great but sharing is part of the cure to constant worry.
If you have no friends then this could be an opportunity for you to start making them. It can be hard especially when we have grown up to make friends but in the age of social media you can find anyone in social clubs.
If you like playing games online you can find friends online (not an excuse to play more video games). We all have things we enjoy~ use them to make friends or if you like watching videos then you can also find a channel on YouTube and contact someone to chat with. This happens more than you think. Or just subscribe to someone’s channel.
Having friends will make you feel part of the community and those worries can be shared. As the German proverb goes “a problem shared is a problem halved”.
4. Seek to understand things that are within your circle of influence
It is very important to distinguish between the first point and this point. The circle of influence are things that you can directly control.
You can control your thoughts, attitudes, actions, habits, relationships, personal growth, priorities, environment, and more importantly your responses.
Even though we might not control things that are in our external environment, we can exert massive influence on the place we live in and on our loved ones.
Next time when you are worrying or if you worried right now ask yourself the following question:
Is this outside of my circle of influence? Or is this within my circle of influence?
The former you learn to accept and find the right response to and the latter you do something about it!
Worrying in either case produces ZERO results!
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]]>Change is guaranteed in life, but it often feels like an uphill battle. If you’ve ever felt frustrated and stuck in a cycle of no results, unsure of where to start, then this article is for you. In this article, I will be sharing about the power of change and how to overcome the obstacles that hold us back.
Throughout my life, I’ve always desired to change and grow. However, I often found myself frustrated and unsure of where to begin. It felt like I wanted to walk confidently, but all I could do was crawl without making any progress. In this article, I’ll share a perspective that will transform your journey of change.
Imagine having the determination of a child learning to walk. Children crawl, stand up, fall down, and keep trying because they know that one day they will walk. I want to share this mindset with you because you are capable of adopting it. Embracing the idea that crawling a thousand times will eventually lead to standing is key.
To guide you on this transformative journey, I will help you create a personal constitution. This document will consist of principles, values, and guidelines that will serve as your compass toward the life you envision. Just like a nation has a constitution to govern itself, you need a personal constitution to govern your actions and choices.
A personal constitution is highly individualized and covers different areas of your life. It includes personal goals, beliefs, moral and ethical values, priorities, and desired behaviors. It acts as a guide for your daily choices, actions, and interactions with others.
Creating a personal constitution offers several benefits.
I recommend two books to help you create your personal constitution:
These two books are very helpful if you want to continue to refine your personal constitution. Continual improvement is very key in life aka “IKIGAI”
Creating a personal constitution requires introspection and reflection on what truly matters to you. In the next article, I will share three ways of thinking and guiding principles to create a solid personal constitution.
Requirements: Pen and Paper to start making a personal constitution.
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]]>For our general well-being, it’s crucial to take a moment in order to relax and re-fuel and it’s critical to do so without having any negative feelings like guilt. You can prioritize your mental and physical health and lead a more healthy and fulfilling life by using these ten guilt-free relaxation techniques. Not only is self-care vital, it is also not selfish.
Which ones do you use to unwind?
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1.”I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” – Thomas Edison
Meaning : Failure is a normal part of learning. You’re sure to achieve success if you constantly try new things and keeping on improving after your failures.
2.”It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.” – Confucius
Meaning: Regardless of speed, progress is progress.
3. “You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.” – C.S. Lewis
Meaning: It’s never too late to start chasing new objectives and aspirations, regardless of your age or level of accomplishment. We should always push ourselves to advance our knowledge and skills.
4.”The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it.” – Steve Jobs
Meaning : Being passionate about your work is essential if you want to accomplish big things.
5.”Believe you can and you’re halfway there.” – Theodore Roosevelt
Meaning: We can change a lot by simply believing in ourselves.
6. “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” – Winston Churchill
Meaning: Success and failure are both transient. What counts most is having the fortitude to move ahead despite setbacks.
7.”The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” – Nelson Mandela
Meaning: You are bound to fail! What matters most is that you try again and get back up.
8.”Don’t watch the clock; do what it does. Keep going.” – Sam Levenson
Meaning: Continue making progress while maintaining concentration on the current work.
9. “Fall seven times, stand up eight.” – Japanese Proverb
Meaning: Have you failed a lot? Get back up again!
10. “When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place.” – Unknown
Meaning: Remembering your initial motivation for pursuing your goal might be useful when you’re feeling down and tempted to quit.
Voila! Share the quote(s) that resonated most with you with your friends and family.
It is very important that we keep our reasons in front of us every time we do something so that we can always come back to it whenever we feel like giving up.
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]]>Have you opened the brokerage account yet? If not, please see my previous article.
This is the stage that you are going to make money work for you instead of continuing to work for money. The only way to make money is either you work to get paid, or you invest the money, and it pays you.
If you want to start investing in the stock market, you will need to invest in very good companies. There are several things to consider when analyzing what companies buy. For example, would you invest in a company that goes against your values? Probably not!
That is the best place to start from when you are considering starting investing.
Do you want to part easily with your hard-earned money? Then do not invest in things you do not UNDERSTAND.
One of the greatest investors of all time is Warren Buffet and he has insight on this: “Never invest in a business you do not understand.”
If you do not know what a certain company does but you hear people talk about it and tell you how much you are missing out that is okay. Take it from the greatest investor.
If you know how bicycles work and you see a company that makes bicycles then that is a good investment rather than choosing a company that plans to do mining on the moon for example.
As Albert Einstein said: “If you cannot explain it simply, you do not understand it well enough”.
Therefore, a rule of thumb is that you should be able to explain the company that you are investing in. If you cannot then watch out and you should consider selling the shares of that company.
This doesn’t mean you need to know where the president of the company lives, how many employees the company has when it was started etc. but you better know what product or service the business does well.
There are so many companies to choose from that this rule must be followed all the time. This is especially true if you are doing the investing yourself and have no financial experts (who know other fields) working for you, which I assume you do not have. Just the New York Stock Exchange (NYSE) has over 5000+ companies and you do not even need 100 to be a good investor. So do not feel like you are missing out because you are not!
After you buy the company (pie), you are a shareholder (pie holder). If you buy a good pie most people will want to have a piece of the pie.
Since so many people come asking for the same thing, you know what happens when everyone wants the same shoe or ticket. Yes, you got it ~ the price goes up.
If the demand for the company you bought increases that means that the value of the company also increases.
If you buy a share price at $10 and the value of the company goes up, the share price can go up to $13 or higher.
Simple Math I promise:
If you buy 10 shares each costing you $10, then you have invested?
10 shares * $10 each = $100
If each share goes up to $13, then you have made?
10 shares *$13 each = $130
What does the share increase in dollar amount?
You have gained $30 ($130 made– $100 cost).
How do you get this $30 if you wanted to go use it? You will have to sell your shares, which is very easy and can happen in milliseconds. Yup you read that right! Milliseconds, that is how quickly the transactions happen.
The share price could go down as well and that is why we talked about buying a good company, which we’ll talk about in future articles.
This is my favorite way of making money in the stock market and I have used it to invest in other businesses and to start my business after getting the dividends.
So, whether the share goes up or down it doesn’t matter if you still get your dividend! (Yeah!).
Not all companies do this and some companies that give dividends can change. That is why I talked about choosing good companies that pay dividends all the time! That is what I look for.
Sometimes it is as simple as no dividends no investment for me!!
The best way to get your money give back to you is through dividends in my opinion and there are investors who just invest to get dividends.
The game now is what companies should I buy?
PLEASE DO NOT ASK YOURSELF WHAT STOCKS YOU SHOULD BUY INSTEAD ASK YOURSELF WHAT COMPANY SHOULD I BUY
It is very important you look at the stocks as companies providing value to people. When you buy shares of Walmart for example, think of the hundreds of employees that the company employs and your money will go to pay for their vacation, mortgage etc. In return, you will make money by how much they work for Walmart (technically they work for you now since you are a part owner of Walmart!). If you work for Walmart then even better you work for yourself as both an employee and part owner of Walmart.
That would change most people’s Monday morning feeling of going to work if they partly owned most of the companies. Imagine how you would talk to a sales representative who wanted to sell you something from the company you own?
Always pursue a WIN-WIN mindset in the stock market. More value = more returns!!
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]]>Do you remember the first time you opened a bank account? Maybe your parents did it for you but it is very simple to do. That is exactly what were are going to do here as well.
Your bank account, also called a checking account, holds cash for you to use when needed. You are able to use it to write checks as well. For you to buy stocks you will need to open what is called a brokerage account.
A brokerage account allows you (the investor) to be able to buy stocks (shares of companies). The brokerage account is offered by licenced brokerage companies which are mostly regular banks. For the majority of people in North America, some parts of Europe (like the UK), and Australia the odds are that your bank probably offers a brokerage account.
But why haven’t they told me to open one? Well, that is the best question but it has to do with the fact that most people are unaware of it. You can call them now and they can open it for you in few minutes! It is that easy!
Common questions and concerns:
Instead, the question to ask at this stage is, “what is required to open a brokerage account?”
You will need the same information for opening a regular account which includes: home address, phone number, email address, and personal identification like passport, driver’s license, social insurance number (SIN)/ social security number (SSN).
During the process of opening the account they will ask you common questions like, “what are your goals for investing?” or, “what is your risk tolerance?” and other similar questions.
Congratulations! You have completed the profile and opened the account! Now it is time to fund (add money to) your new account to start buying shares (stocks of companies).
Are you surprised how easy it is like I was?
The best book I personally recommend when getting started is Money Master The Game. I am shocked when I see some other books recommended ahead of this one! I have read books on this topic but in most of them you need to understand the basics or they get technical after 2 chapters. Most of them do not even walk you through the reasons you want to invest but this one goes through all of that and talks to successful investors (so many) like Ray Dalio who built the world’s largest hedge fund firm to date.
In the next article, I will be sharing how you can buy shares in reputable companies. You need to seek financial guidance as well in the process but do not let other people control your hard-earned money.
How about you make those extra funds earn a little bit of money rather than have the banks offer 3% returns on your savings account (I am being too generous here!) when the inflation is at 7%? It does not take a genius to see that your money has less buying power sitting idle in the checking account (the number you see but your money is actuality in the market or lent out)!
Action: Open a brokerage account!
Here is the list and links of the common brokerage offering banks/firms in the USA, Canada, UK, and Australia
United States:
Canada:
United Kingdom:
Australia:
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]]>However, when it comes to investing in the stock market to achieve returns on our hard earned cash, we are very reluctant because we are afraid. I totally understand this fear, because who wants to lose their money by giving it up? After all, we have heard of so many people who have lost money in the stock market and we could be one of them.
On the other hand, people have seen and know people who make money by investing in the stock market and wonder how they do it. Did they just buy a lottery “stock” and wait until they luckily made money? They wonder.
That was me a few years back as well. I did not know that almost every bank is in the stock market, and major companies are in the stock market (Facebook, Amazon, Google, Walmart, Microsoft, Apple, Samsung and many others). Chances are that if you looked up your favorite company that gives you products or services, the odds are that it is listed on the New York Stock Exchange or owned by a company listed on some other exchange.
In this article I will give you the basic idea of investing in the stock market and what it’s exactly all about.
To clearly understand what the stock market is all about let’s start with an example business. The business will be selling bread. When you start this business you have no customers at the beginning. As you tell your family and friends they start to buy the bread from you. From there, the business starts to grow as your family members tell other people.
Normally when you start a business you start with your own money (capital). As the business grows the cost of making the bread starts to get high because of all the materials, staff, advertising and other activities. At this stage of the business you approach family and friends for money to help you out.
You have a number of options with the money from family and friends:
Option 1 is very easy to understand. If you do not pay them back (which you should) you are going to have very unhappy family members and friends.
Option 2 is similar to a stock market – only that people who gave you money are not your family and friends (more below).
Option 3 is very unlikely but if you are lucky enough to have family and friends to give you money then surely take it, but make sure they understand that it is a gift and not something else.
Back to option 2.
This option is good only if you have family and friends who have lots of money (hundreds of thousands to millions) to give you to grow your business. Unfortunately 99% of entrepreneurs do not have family and friends who have the money to give them to grow the business.
I mean, I definitely understand. Why should they?
That is where the stock market comes in. Thank the stock market for funding the gadget that you are using to read this article. My guess is that you are either using a product made by Apple/Samsung/ Microsoft/Google. All these companies are in the stock market.
So, what is a stock market?
Let’s use the example above of our bread making company. When you start the company you own it fully. But as you grow it you sell part of the company to other people.
Basically, you start off owning the full pie (business). If you want investors, then you will have to sell a part of the pie (share/stock). Investors give you the money to run the company in exchange for part ownership the pie.
All you have to do now is to check online for how much “pie” people own of any company. People whom you thought own 100% of Facebook, Amazon, Blackrock, Tesla etc., do not own them. You would be a trillionaire if you owned these companies all by yourself.
However, unlike a pie that you can start eating right away, an investor in the company is very patient to eat their part of the pie (share/stock).
That’s it! That is the stock market at its core. You own part (share/stock) of the pie (company). There are millions of pies (companies) and there are millions of pie owners.
It is very difficult to own the pie all by yourself! I guess parents are right when they teach us to share when we are still young.
Main Idea: The stock market is a place (market) where people (sellers) who have businesses sell part of the business to other people (buyers) to raise money to produce goods and services.
We will be covering these and other similar questions in the upcoming articles.
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]]>It is very difficult to believe that you have a lot of input for what goes on in your life when everything that you do seem to be beyond your control. I definitely used to think this way especially because of the way I grew up. There are things that are definitely beyond our control like the weather, where were are born, our race, our siblings, our parents, among other things. But equally we have so many things that are within our control as well.
We are in control of what clothes to wear, what to eat, what to watch, what to listen to, how to live, who to marry, if we should go to school, what job we want, how many qualifications we want, where to live, and many many more choices available to us.
But if you were born in places that had very limited resources like I did then it might seem that you really have no choice. You still have a choice even thought the options are few. How does this relate to the topic of taking full responsibility you might ask? Actually, it does have everything to do with it.
Taking full responsibility is acknowledging the fact that you are response-able. Response-ability means that you are going to use all the tools and skills you have to make sure that you look after things that are within your power. It means that before you blame others you are going to first look at yourself and ask a simple question:
How should I respond to this situation?
When I arrived in Canada in 2012, I was shocked by how much the weather was unforgiving to someone like me who grew up in such a warm climate. I want the winter to be only for the people who were “used” to it and were born in Canada. Little did I know that the winter did not care about my wishes. Thinking through this process very much helped me to see that I am going to be in Canada for a while. In fact, I realized that I am going to be in Canada for most of my life and I will either live complaining as long as I am in Canada or I can change my response to the immutable weather.
I took full responsibility and realized that even though I cannot change the weather I can do a number of things about it. I changed my mindset and said the weather is not to blame but my response was not appropriate. The weather is neither good nor bad. It is neutral; it was me who interpret it as bad. So, I took full responsibility on how I approach the weather with the following actions:
You can believe that I have already acted on the solutions to make sure that I enjoy my winters even though they are not the same as summer. It is 100% better than when I used to complain at the bus stop, while going to class, while going to buy groceries, about why I could not play sports in the winter, about why I sneeze all the time in the cold and on and on.
What are the benefits of taking full responsibility?
There are very few things that make us feel more miserable than feeling like nothing you do matters. This feeling is what has been called learned helplessness. This happens when someone encounters a very stressful situation over and over again and they come to learn that no matter what they do the situation will not change. So, the person does not do anything even when chances arise to change because they have been conditioned to believe that they are unable to change.
There is a course offered by one of the top institutions in the world for free called foundations of positive psychology by Martin E.P. Seligman, PHD. In this course Seligman talks about the idea of positive psychology which is the opposite of learned helplessness. Seligman talks about the idea of learned optimism which makes you empowered to challenge your thought processes which can be a game changer to have positive outcomes in your life! You can also check out the book here.
One thing that you might have already realized is that you are stronger than you think. If you do not believe me take a moment and think of things that you did in the past that surprised you. You finished that assignment on time despite all odds, you raised that child, you gave more than you thought possible, you are reading this article and many other things!
Now imagine you being even tougher than that. Being the best of you each and everyday! Instead of leaving that child alone you did everything to provide. Instead of you not writing that paper you finished it. Instead of you running away you came back. Now, imagine doing this week in week out. You can be tough by taking full responsibility for everything.
We all have the satisfied feeling after doing something like making the dinner, doing the dishes, taking a shower, and getting everything in order. You feel like you are a superhuman. Then tomorrow comes and you go back to the version of yourself that leaves things undone for weeks if not months. Doing this erodes self-confidence of what we are capable of doing in the future.
When thing are are not done the way we want we blame instead of acknowledging what we are capable of. By fully doing things consistently other people close to you notice and comment and your confidence will grow. This confidence can really rub off on other people to motivate them act the way you are.
Do you have a student mentality or a master mentality? If you have a master mentality you think that you know all there is to know, but if you have a student mentality you are in a constant learning process. It is very unfortunate that in our lives we reach a point when we think we know all there is to know and we think that we cannot do other things more than what we have done.
It becomes very obvious that we don’t have all the knowledge we claim to have because when we make a mistake we blame others instead of taking full responsibility. If you knew everything and you acted with that knowledge then you would take full responsibility for the outcomes. The reason why we fail to take full responsibility is because of pride.
The right attitude should be like what the Alcoholic Anonymous prayer says: “God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference”
And if you don’t believe in God then at least acknowledge that there are people who know way more than you do.
So be a student and never a master. Own mistakes because students make them all the time and you are one even when you are 200 years old!
People love those who own their own mistakes. Reason? Because they too make mistakes and it shows that you are humble. You are going to make very good friends who rely on you because they will know that you will not be their judge since they know your own mistakes.
You know how it feels like when you talk to a “saint” friend and when you talk to a real friend. Who would you rather have?
Take full responsibility for the things in your life and the world will be an oasis of friends.
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